Anyway, coming back to the stress question, we've established that it's a bad question to be asked. We've established that it's a bit of a rabbit hole you can fall into. That will get you to disclose negative things about yourself that are gonna count against you. When they decide if you move on to, the next stage of the interview like you pass the interview. So the conclusion is that we don't want to engage with this question, any more than we have to. It's a trap. Anything we can do to end this question quickly and safely is good.

无论如何，回到压力问题，我们已经确定这是一个不好的问题。我们已经确定，这是一个你可能会掉进去的兔子洞。这会让你透露自己的负面信息，这会对你不利。当他们决定你是否进入下一阶段的面试时，就像你通过了面试一样。所以结论是，我们不想参与这个问题，除非我们必须这样做。这是个陷阱。我们能做的任何事情都是为了快速安全地结束这个问题。

So to skip to the end, what I recommend this kind of sounds a bit weird, but just bear with me. What i've recommended is when you get asked this question, how do you handle stress? You say I actually handle stress very well and then you shut up and you let them move to the next question. You're not gonna take the bait. You're not gonna go down that rabbit hole. If you feel really awkward and you feel like you must say something else. The standard line that I always use is everyone feels a certain amount of stress. But for me, it's never really been a problem in the past, and then you shut up, then you let them move on. You answer the question politely. You technically given a proper professional answer to it, you haven't given them anything that they would consider a red flag or a problem about yourself. Okay? And that way, you can get back to answering questions like, why should we hire you? Which is you telling them how you meet all the requirements, how you have everything they're looking for and how they should hire you.

所以跳到最后，我的建议听起来有点奇怪，但请耐心听我说。我的建议是，当你被问到这个问题时，你如何处理压力？你说我实际上处理压力很好，然后你闭嘴，让他们进入下一个问题。你不会上钩的。你不会去那个兔子洞的。如果你觉得很尴尬，你觉得你必须说点别的。我经常使用的标准是每个人都会感受到一定的压力。但对我来说，这在过去从来都不是一个问题，然后你闭嘴，然后你让他们继续前进。你礼貌地回答问题。从技术上讲，你给出了一个适当的专业答案，你没有给他们任何他们认为是危险信号或关于你自己的问题的东西。好的？这样，你就可以回去回答问题，比如，我们为什么要雇用你？你告诉他们你如何满足所有的要求，你如何拥有他们想要的一切，以及他们应该如何雇用你。

That's what your purposes in the job interviews to get back to the talking about how you have everything you're looking for, and showing off your professionalism, showing off how charismatic you are showing off your communication skills, and so on.

这就是你在工作面试中的目的，回到谈论你如何拥有你想要的一切，展示你的专业精神，展示你有多有魅力，展示你的沟通技巧，等等。